Sunday, March 17, 2013

Pet weirdness – bringing in mice

The other night we let in Little Gray because it was way too cold to keep him outside even in his little heated doghouse.

To our shock and dismay, he trotted inside with a mouse in his mouth before we could notice and block his way. I don’t know what he was thinking. That he had to pay a cover charge to get in?

Or maybe he just wanted to give us a gift? Or, more likely, he had just caught the mouse when he saw the back door open and didn’t want to give up either opportunity.

Anyway, he dropped the mouse, which scurried off into my husband’s study, which is heaped with papers and clutter to hide in. For the rest of the evening, the cat sat in the back hallway and attempted to keep an eye on the entire house.

Finally, the mouse showed up around midnight, scampering along the living room. The cat was on him like white on rice (to work in a cliché), but ran into the kitchen with his prize as soon as I came out of the bedroom to see what was going on.

For some reason, Little Gray dropped the mouse in the kitchen, and my husband and I were able to shoo it out the front door while keeping the cat indoors. The mouse looked unharmed but obviously shaken up. I guess it now had a story to tell its dozens of grandchildren.

Do you ever have your cat try to bring prey into the house? If so, what does he bring?

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Monday, March 11, 2013

Pet weirdness – eating bugs

Okay, I know that Little Gray has some issues, having once been a stray cat. Even after five years in a good home, he remains fascinated by water as if remembering that a refreshing drink isn’t easy to find.

Whenever I water the plants on the back porch, he stares at the streams that trickle out of the bottom of the pots and run off the edge of the porch. He will even follow them and dab his paw into the wetness. He doesn’t trust the quality of the water he gets when I refill his bowl. He has to sniff it first and often will dip his paw in the water, sniff his paw, and then lick the water off to make sure of the taste.

Also, he has an urgent need to sniff everything that I have in my hand whether it’s a book or a turtle that I’m carrying from one part of the yard to the other. He’s not hungry per se, but he wants to know what I have.

The pet weirdness reached a new height the other evening when he was sitting on my lap in the kitchen and we both noticed a small cricket hopping along the tiled floor. (This was probably a leftover cricket from our pet toad, who recently passed on and went to toad heaven after five happy years here on earth with us.)

Anyway, the cat jumped off my lap and went to investigate the cricket. That wasn’t so weird because I know cats get curious about little moving things. But after sniffing the cricket, our cat licked it up in a matter-of-fact way, swallowed, and came back to my lap for more petting. I couldn’t believe what I’d seen. I mean, I've never seen a cat do this before.

And I hoped that he wasn’t about to spit it up. (He didn’t.) Does your cat eat bugs? If so, what kind of bugs? Was he or she ever a stray? Is this normal cat behavior?

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Sunday, February 24, 2013

Pet weirdness - thinking of a name

We have a stray cat who adopted us about five years ago. I mean, what’s not to like about our back yard?

Plenty of water and moist dog-food chunks to eat. Of course, these things were intended for our turtles, but the cat had no problems with shouldering them aside and taking over their food.

Plenty of birds to hunt. We were also putting out birdseed for the hordes of pea-brained wild doves that seem to feel that it’s our duty to look after them along with the trees and other landscaping features in the back yard. No other cats or dogs.

So he settled in to stay in our back yard, and I didn’t catch on that he was ours until one rainy day (which almost never happens out here in the desert) in which he stayed on our back porch all day. Until then, I’d thought he was one of the neighborhood cats who frequently roamed across our property. But then I realized that he had no other place to go.

We bought him some dried cat-food and a heated doghouse, and the rest has been history. Except we couldn’t decide on a name for him. Which is funny because we’re usually good at names – at least for computers.

My husband has named computers on the network after ocean life (Mollusk, Oyster, Scallop) and cuts of meat (Sirloin, Ribeye, Porterhouse). I have named them after Confederate generals (Longstreet, Stuart, Beauregard) and Egyptian gods (Ptah, Isis, Horus).

But we couldn’t figure out a name for the cat until we went with the obvious, Little Gray. (He’s not so little now, being about 10 pounds.) How do you name your pets? After their appearance? Personality? After favorite characters in books or movies?

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Sunday, February 17, 2013

More Geeking Out


Okay, my latest aquisition is really cool. This is a 3.5-inch pewter miniature of General Thomas "Stonewall" Jackson from the American Civil War, and it looks JUST LIKE HIM.

All the details are correct. Look at the brown sorrel pony he's riding, which was smaller than most of the officers' horses. And the shape of his beard. And the weird little squashed-up forage cap he always wore.

Stonewall Jackson was very unusual, even for a military genius. There is some modern-day speculation that he had Asperger's Syndrome, a form of high functioning autism.

From what I've read about his pre-Civil War career as an instructor at Virginia Military Institute, I could believe it. He taught physics with a military application and would memorize the textbook and lecture directly from it. If students disturbed his routine with questions, then obviously they weren't grasping the information. To help them, he would repeat the exact same lecture the following day, word for word. There are some cadets' letters that have survived to today in which they whine about him being their least favorite instructor, ha, ha!

He was also deeply devout (maybe even a religious fanatic) and yet he loved battle. He didn't like to fight on Sundays, but he would if he had to. And he was a devoted father and husband. Definitely a person of contradictions.

Some historians think that if he hadn't fallen at Chancellorsville, he would have turned the tide at Gettysburg and perhaps helped the South to win the Civil War. I believe the part about Gettysburg, but I don't think the South could have won the war overall. Not against generals like Grant and Sherman, who had far more men and materials. However, it's fun to speculate.

Even more than the attention to detail in this miniature, I like the energy that the figure holds. You can see this best in General Jackson's hands where he's pulling the reins and pointing. I do a little sculpture (whittling on a very basic level) and I'm fascinated by sculptures that capture energy and look alive.

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Tuesday, February 12, 2013

A warning about Bookish.com

Just a quick warning. If you're thinking about signing up for the new social media site, Bookish.com, I'd advise against it. Once you've signed up, there is no way for you to delete your account. There is also no way for you to unsubscribe from their newsletter.

I'm emphasizing the word "YOU" because the power to change your involvement in this site does not lie in your hands. In order to do these things, you must petition their customer service department, which I have already done to no avail. How time consuming can it be to delete one person's account? Or better still, give their customer service department a break and put the power of account deletion into our hands where it belongs?

When I tried to point out these things in a message uisng the Bookish "feedback" email address, I got a failure-to-deliver message from Gmail that reads, "Google tried to deliver your message, but it was rejected by the server for the recipient domain bookish.com [...] The error that the other server returned was: 550-5.1.1 The email account that you tried to reach does not exist."

In addition, the site lacks the flexibility and interactiveness of Goodreads.com in that you cannot easily add a book to their book database. If you're an author, you are supposed to contact your publisher and ask them to submit your book for you to Bookish. I'm sure authors and publishers alike would rather not have to jump through those hoops just to get that done. I'm also unclear on who Bookish would even recognize as a "legitimate" publisher.

Anyway, if I'd known that I'd have no power to cut loose from this site once my personal information was ensnared by them, I never would have got involved with Bookish. I hope I can save some other people the trouble. (Edited to add that the customer service department did delete my account about a week after I asked them to.)

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Wednesday, January 16, 2013

Okay I have to geek out about this...

I love miniatures. I have to restrain myself so they don't take over my house -- because, being miniatures, they don't seem to take up space. Anyway, I found this on eBay. It's a chess piece (the Knight) in the shape of Confederate cavalry officer J.E.B. Stuart from the American Civil War, and it looks just like him! (Hard to see from my photo, though). I just had to geek out about this.
Here is the real J.E.B. Stuart, courtesy of Wikipedia in a public domain photo:


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Thursday, December 27, 2012

My Best Gay Romance Reads of 2012

OMG, this was hard to narrow down! But here is my list of the best books that I read in 2012, with most but not all being released this year as well.  What criteria did I use to choose these books? First, all had to be so impeccably written that they felt like mainstream professionally published fiction.

Second, I looked for complex, appealing characters. For example, the guys in Four Corners by Kate McMurray (also in Out in the Field), or the British main character in Pressure Head by JL Merrow (I loved the cultural details and his unique voice).

Third, I wanted a strong setting. It could the place itself. For example, Mexico in Day of the Dead by Erik Orrantia. Or it could be vivid, complex details that make the character’s job come to life. The job has to be balanced with the romance and woven naturally into the story with no info-dump. For example, the pharmaceutical smuggling in Diversion by Eden Winters, and the guy in The Condor by Isa K, who is running an escort service in New York City.

Fourth, I looked for books that had a profound emotional impact on me. Books that lingered in my memory and stood out when I reviewed the entire year. Something like Xylophone by KZ Snow or The Island by Lisa Henry.

Fifth and last, I included books that were so unique in some way that they stood out like beacons in the sea of sameness that makes up our gay romance genre. Something like Bartender PI by Ethan Stone, which was absolutely hilarious with its wordplay and lovably inept hero. Or Counterpunch by Aleksandr Voinov that centered on heavyweight boxing – in the slave leagues. Or Hawaiian Gothic by Heidi Belleau and Violetta Vane, which was as gorgeously surrealistic as anything China Miéville might have written. Or the two by Jordan Castillo Price, which were a breath of fresh air in terms of concept and plotting.

So, here is the list, alphabetical by title. Links go to Amazon.com.

1. Bartender, PI by Ethan Stone. Wonderful humor with the wordplay (think Yankees catcher Yogi Berra saying, “It’s déjà vu all over again.”) and lovably inept hero. The mystery plot is gratifyingly twisty and keeps you guessing.

2. The Condor by Isa K. Full of surprises. I truly didn’t know which of two possible guys our hero would end up with until the last moment. Also, the most realistic and matter-of-fact depiction of prostitution I’ve ever read in our genre. The hero worries about quarterly taxes and bickering amongst his employees!

3. Counterpunch by Aleksandr Voinov. Dark, gritty, and contains some ferociously vivid boxing scenes. An unforgettable, heroic main character.

4. Day of the Dead-A Romance by Erik Orrantia. Beautiful depiction of Mexico and Mexican culture in a compelling narrative that isn’t in line with traditional romance, but is very much worth reading. Chava, the effeminate gay teenage cholo, is a stand-out supporting character.

5. Diversion by Eden Winters. Wonderful characters and hot chemistry between them. Lots of humor and excitement, and a superbly realistic and complex plot centering on pharmaceutical smuggling. I couldn’t put this one down, and I’m champing at the bit to get my hands on the planned sequels.

6. Four Corners by Kate McMurray (and Out in the Field by Kate McMurray). I liked Four Corners even better than Out in the Field, but both are examples of the author’s subtle, beautiful writing which focuses upon ordinary, appealing, complex characters who are alluringly masculine.

7. Hawaiian Gothic by Heidi Belleau and Violetta Vane. Beautiful, amazing setting in Hawaii that pitches an appealing Filipino-American hero into a supernatural quest filled with nightmarish imagery. With the exception of China Mieville’s books, I’ve never read anything like it.

8. The Island by Lisa Henry. This book carries a huge emotional impact. The author does a brilliant job of winning your trust, despite your growing sense of anguish for one of the main characters, while never actually hitting you over the head with a scene of brutality.

9. Magic Mansion by Jordan Castillo Price. Reality show! True magic! What more could you want? This book offers truly entertaining escapism.

10. Pressure Head by JL Merrow. This author has a huge talent for characterization and dialog. I loved this character from his cheeky personality (see also Lucky in Diversion by Eden Winters) to his gloriously British voice and setting. The mystery is tightly written and the psychic aspect is fascinating. The supporting character of the neurotic vicar is a stand-out.

11. The Starving Years by Jordan Castillo Price. If you love dystopian fiction and hot m/m/m, look no further.

12. Xylophone by KZ Snow. This beautiful novel, filled with hope and humor, subtly communicates the anguish of sexual abuse while never hammering you over the head with angst. Wonderful, funny supporting character in Bob of Bouncing Bob’s Polka Doodles. This is a book that will stay with me for a long time.

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Monday, December 17, 2012

Goodreads MM Romance Group Members Choice Awards

Over at Goodreads.com, the MM Romance Group has opened voting for the Members Choice Awards for 2012. There are a huge number of books nominated this year. I don’t read nearly as much as most of you do (as you will see), but I can vouch for some good books this year that I’ve read as follows (in alphabetical order by title):

MUSICIANS/ROCKSTARS
Haven’t read any of these yet…

FUNNIEST QUOTES / BEST LINES
Dark Soul Vol. 5 by Aleksandr Voinov
A Hole in God's Pocket by K.Z. Snow

HOTTEST SHIFTER CHARACTER
Haven’t read any of these yet...

PARANORMAL
The Druid Stone by Heidi Belleau and Violetta Vane

HURT/COMFORT
Bonds of Earth by G.N. Chevalier
Home Work by Kaje Harper
The Island by Lisa Henry

ANTHOLOGY
Haven’t read any of these yet...

BEST TEAR JERKER
The Island by Lisa Henry

MOST SURPRISING PLOT DEVICE
Dark Soul Vol. 5 by Aleksandr Voinov
The Druid Stone by Heidi Belleau and Violetta Vane
Hawaiian Gothic by Heidi Belleau and Violetta Vane
The Starving Years by Jordan Castillo Price

BEST SEX SCENE
Home Work by Kaje Harper

BEST CONTEMPORARY ROMANCE OF 2012
The Condor by Isa K.
A Hole in God’s Pocket by K.Z. Snow
Home Work by Kaje Harper
The Island by Lisa Henry
Out in the Field by Kate McMurray
Where You Hurt the Most by Anne Brooke

BDSM
Haven’t read any of these yet…

ENEMIES TO LOVERS
Bonds of Earth by G.N. Chevalier
Pressure Head by J.L. Merrow

HISTORICAL
Bonds of Earth by G.N. Chevalier
Secret Light by Z.A. Maxfield
Skybound by Aleksandr Voinov

SLAVE / DUB
The Island by Lisa Henry

LAW ENFORCEMENT
Diversion by Eden Winters
Home Work by Kaje Harper
The Island by Lisa Henry
Pressure Head by J.L. Merrow

MYSTERY
Diversion by Eden Winters
Home Work by Kaje Harper
Pressure Head by J.L. Merrow

SCI FI / FUTURISTIC
Blind Space by Marie Sexton
Incursion by Aleksandr Voinov
Mnevermind by Jordan Castillo Price
Noble Metals by L.A. Witt

BEST COUPLE / MCs
Diversion by Eden Winters
The Druid Stone by Heidi Belleau and Violetta Vane
Home Work by Kaje Harper

FRIENDS TO LOVERS
Fall Into the Sun by Val Kovalin
I swear to God, I haven’t read any of the ones in this category yet but my own book.

HOTTEST VAMPIRE CHARACTER
Haven’t read any of these yet…

BEST SIDE / SUPPORTING CHARACTER
Mnevermind

GAY / OUT FOR YOU
Fall Into the Sun
Seriously, I haven’t read any of these yet in this category but my own book.

COWBOYS
Haven’t read any of these yet…

YOUNG ADULT CHARACTERS
How to Repair a Mechanical Heart

BEST WORLD CREATED
The Druid Stone
Incursion
The Starving Years

BEST FIRST TIME
How to Repair a Mechanical Heart

HUMOROUS
Bartender, PI

BEST TITLE
A Hole in God's Pocket
How to Repair a Mechanical Heart

HOTTEST M/M/M
The Starving Years

BEST COMING OUT STORY
Fall Into the Sun
Home Work
Out in the Field

Voting runs through Dec 31st at this link

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